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Dealing with a stormy boss
It would be a great pleasure if you could give me some feng shui advice on how to face and communicate with my Western office manager, and thereby improve the general atmosphere in my workplace.....
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When one’s career is in the wrong gear
I have been due for promotion a for a long time but there always seem to be some sort of obstacle. My house faces South and sits North. In my living room on the Northwest corner is a storeroom where we keep our shoes. At my dining area in the North is a small toilet.....
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When luck is so close, yet far away
I am a female Boar born on Sep 21, 1971, while my hubby is a Sheep born on Nov 25, 1967. I recently developed a keen interest in feng shui, thanks to your book Lillian Too's Fortune & Feng Shui 2007 Sheep.....
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Ensuring your unborn child’s gender
I've noticed that many people who are planning to have children, use feng shui to ensure that they get a baby boy.
But in my case, I am seeking your help to have a little girl instead. I already have two little boys and I want to add a new member to our family, hopefully in 2008.....
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Dealing with a wayward child
I've exhausted ways of trying to put my eldest son, who is 13 and in Form One, back on track. During his primary school days, he was an obedient and towns child, but all that changed once he entered secondary school.....
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When debtors give you the run-around
I read an interesting article in the March/ April 2007 issue of Feng Shui World concerning your featured 'Feng Shui babe of the month', Katarzyna Dajka. In it, it was mentioned that her boyfriend was facing problems collecting the substantial amount of money owed to him by a debtor. But thanks to your feng shui advice, her boyfriend was eventuated repaid.....
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When cracks appear in a relationship
I am a Rabbit (Nov 18 1975) and my boyfriend is a Dog (July 19 1970). Based on our animal horoscope, we are 'secret friends'. But according to our kua numbers, we are the complete opposite of each other (my best direction is his worst and vice versa). Are we actually compatible? What should I do?
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Ask Lillian Too ( Issue No.25 )
On Oct 12 this year, the most horrible incident happened to my family. As a feng shui follower, I never imagined such a thing could happen to us. A robbery occurred when my mother was alone at the house.....
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When everything falls apart
All of a sudden, every aspect of my life has fallen apart, all at once. My loving boyfriend has lost his loving feeling for me overnight, and is now putting away. Still, I am certain that because we share a very strong bond and have a strong foundation, our relationship is not beyond repair.....
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On clock collections and compatible homes
It's been a great pleasure reading about feng shui through your book Basic Feng Shui. I have just arrived from the UK for a visit and am going to try to implement the basics of feng shui to my cottage in England when I return.....
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On compatible companions
I've been following your feng shui tips for quite some time. This year when I moved into my new house, I placed a bejeweled horse in the south of my room to activate my peach blossom luck. I'm a Wood Female Ox, born in 1985, and my Kua number is 9.....
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Look for those auspicious signs
My family and I will soon be moving into our new house. But there is something very peculiar about this house, quite unlike those of our soon-to-be neighbours.....
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Get the best out of crystal placement
I’m a huge fan of yours and, have received a lot of help and success from your feng shui books.
The problem with my family is that we live in a south-facing home. The entrance to our house is in the eastern side. We have placed a large crystal chunk on the roof to activate the mountain star.....
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On negative expressions and Poison Arrows
I am in great need of your help. I am a server for a steakhouse and the most important part of our uniform is our smile (which emanates a positive chi flow). Throughout one's shift, that positivity remains.....
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On ‘afflictions’ and the hazard of clocks
I read in your magazines and website that it is inappropriate to give timepieces as gifts. I am wondering if there is any Feng Shui implication for collecting clocks, particularly in my bedroom. I have been collecting old self-winding tin clocks made in China and have a display cabinet for more than 30 of them.....
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On straying husbands and deadbeat debtors
I am facing a problem with my marriage. My husband seems to be devoting time to another woman and always makes plans for himself, even on the weekends.
We have two sons, aged eight and six.....
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On money problems and marital strife
I have praised Feng Shui, as well as bought and placed in my house most of the important Feng Shui items from World of Feng Shui. But when it comes to my facing direction, I am very confused.....
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On Dzi beads and study luck
I'm a high school student and I have a question to ask you. I study hard for every test I sit, but I only manage to achieve just-above-average scores. As a high-achiever, I want my marks to be excellent. Do you have any tips to help me improve my studying methods and raise my grades?.....
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On activating luck
I bought a really nice set of brass Fuk Luk Sau recently. Can you please advise me on the best position to place them? Is there any special ritual that I should perform when inviting them in? How bout the date?.....
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It’s a Jungle out there
Your column is such a treat for me and I am so happy to have discovered it. I am currently learning the various types of feng shui and am unsure what to do when different variations conflict, for example: 8 Mansions, Flying Stars, Bazi, etc.....
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Directional guidance
I'm an Ox born in September 1973, with a Kua number of 6. I recently read an article stating that activating the south (of one's home) would bring about 'total loss'. The problem is, I had planned to hang red curtains in my green living room to activate my fame and reputation luck.....
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Welcoming ‘8’ into your home
Firstly I've had many different opinions on how, if at all possible to change a period 6 or 7 home into a period 8 home. I've been told to: open up some parts of the roof and let the sun in for seven days, and change the entire flooring and the main door (even though this does not guarantee that you have effectively changed your house into a period 8 home).....
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On work environments and ‘poison arrows’
I recently moved from a period 7 house that my husband and I had renovated, to a period 8 house and sold our prior house within 8 days. The new house was built in 2005, and it is a South West 1-facing house. The problem is, at the back of the house, we have a poison arrow from the house behind ours pointing at the back of our house.....
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On romance and residential layouts
I am new to feng shui, but I’ve always found it to be very interesting indeed. I’ve been reading up on feng shui, and would like to implement many of its recommendations, but I don’t know where to start.....
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On marriage and misunderstandings
I’m a 31 year-old lady. For the past nine years, I have not been in any romantic relationship. I would consider myself above average (in appearance and intelligence). But no guy ever comes after me.....
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On romance and residences
I am having a problem with finding the right guy. I was born in the Year of Rooster - and I know that this is a good year for the Rooster. But nothing seems to work for me in terms of finding suitable guy.....
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On money and matrimony
I heard that brining more money into your life is the easiest feng shui philosophy to implement. However, there must be something I’m doing wrong, or not implementing correctly, as nothing appears to be coming into my life. And I’m tired of struggling financially.....
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Good luck charms
I’m an avid fan of yours. I do a little feng shui at my apartment. I have a chihuahua too. But I don’t seem to have any luck at all. I’ve been sitting for professional examinations recently – but I fail each time. And the last time was my fifth attempt at the paper.....
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Avert arguments
I have been an avid reader of your feng shui books for many years. I have tried to make many changes in my home and my work environment but just do not seem to be making progress.....
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Luck of the draw
I’M single lady and ready for commitment. Sometimes I think that I’ve been cursed for the last six years in the Love Dept. I could never find success in my love affairs. Currently, I’m in a relationship, but my boyfriend seems reluctant to get married.....
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Woes no more
What can I do to make sure I never see a particular someone, and that the person will never bother me again? She is someone who has married into the family and she brings heartache and anger to everyone with her attitude and it is getting quite unbearable.....
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